Saturday, January 16, 2016

The romance in the relationships. How do you get it back?



To bring romance in your relationship you need to remember the little details that made you fall in love with him/her. Look at  the beginning of your relationship or try something new: write a poem! I'll be impressed!

Unfortunately, too often we lose the romance once your relationship is getting old. Because, most of the time the interest to make the other person feel special falls. The same happens with the other party and then one day, you wake up and you realize that romance has disappeared almost completely. You are too preoccupied with everyday problems and you ignore your relationship.

But your life does not have to be like this. You can bring back the romance in the relationship with small steps, but so effect. Yourtango.com gives you some tips which if you are implementing them, you chances to fall in love again for your partner increases even if you are together for years!


1. Use the right words

If you're inspired, sit in your favorite place to read and take with you a pen and paper. Write a love poem.  Do not be scared! It's not as hard as it sounds, nor should you compare your poem with a famous writer but express your feelings.  Important is to put on paper how you feel, in carefully chosen words. I guarantee you'll achieve the most out of it  and your lover is going to be really impress.

2. Plan a romantic night

If the classical way of spending time together is to have dinner and drink wine or just watching a movie together, please take a break! Your partner already knows what to expect from you when preparing an evening together. At least for one night,  plan something completely different . For example, a bubble bath and scented candles, wine, chocolate and classical music. Or a ride in pathless woods. Anything show more effort and love then a movie night. Any adventure  takes you out of the ordinary  and makes you feel alive.

3. Show him/her your feelings

Find something or create something that would show your partner how much you love him/her. What makes them happy? Let your creativity comes into play. Do not let each day pass  by as if it would not mean anything. Make some special days, ie without an excuse and give him/her a gift or something once a week. Showing your feelings and appreciation will  restore the romance in your relationship.

After you begin to be more aware that romance is up to you two will not take long and you will see that the relationship will be more beautiful! You will feel closer and your feelings will increase day by day.


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